We recently visited Copenhagen and found that it is a really kid-friendly city. It’s also one of the cleanest cities I’ve been to. As it is just a 1.5 hour flight away from London, I’m not really sure why I haven’t been before. It’s a small enough city to explore on foot or on a cycle, if you want to do it the Danish way. We chose to walk as you always get a great feel of a city when you do this. We didn’t stick to doing just kids things but mixed it up and decided to do kiddy things as well as things we would enjoy but with kids in tow, if that makes sense. Here’s what we loved and would recommend if you visit Copenhagen with kids:
With the Summer holidays coming up lots of us are planning a family holiday. Even though we aren’t going away this Summer travel has always been a huge part of my childhood and adult life for as long as I can remember. Even when Anya came along, we didn’t stop traveling. In fact it was the opposite – we realised we just needed to plan a bit better but it was entirely doable. We also didn’t let long-haul put us off. She’s only six and has already been to places as far flung as Argentina and Uruguay, San Francisco, India and Nepal (lucky kid!). Some of these journeys have involved 14-15 hour flights but we managed.
Some people have commented to me that it’s easier for us with only one child and in some ways it’s true – we don’t have squabbles to sort out, no one fights over which plane seat they’d like (except Richard and me who both always want the window seat!). But on the other hand Anya has no one but us to entertain her. And sometimes it’s been just her and me on long journeys so that has been a bit trickier but still entirely manageable with a little planning beforehand.
Having been through so many journeys and with the holidays coming up I thought I would share some of my best tips on flying long haul with children. There are loads of tips out there for flying with toddlers and babies but not as many for slightly older kids who are around 4-7 years old. I also wanted to share my own experiences of what’s worked and what hasn’t as I’ve tried so many little things to make long flights as bearable as possible. Long flights can be trying with young children and in some ways a lot harder than flying with babies who don’t move. So I hope these tips help you if you’re planning a long haul flight with children soon. And if you’re still thinking about whether you should brave long haul or not, I hope these tips inspire you and make you go for it!
1. Get them excited not just about the holiday but the journey too. If they’ve never been on a plane before then this will be a huge excitement in itself. Even if they have, planes are always exciting – I have taken thousands of flights and I’m still excited every time I get on a plane. Tell them about what to expect at the airport and on the flight so they know what’s coming – include the good and the bad.
2. Let them pack a little back pack or mini stroller suitcase to take on the flight. I use the words ‘let them pack’ very loosely. What I mean is let them believe they are packing a case. Left up to Anya she would cram the most random things in to her hand luggage (she once tried to pack her collection of pebbles that weigh a ton!) so I keep a sharp eye on what she’s putting in there and subtley guide her towards the things I know we will need. Try and get the kids to pack their hand luggage a few days in advance of leaving because this not only builds up excitement but it gives you time to see what’s in there and to change things around if needed. This way you can avoid any last minute panics and arguments.
3. Buy a few cheap toys from the 99p/dollar store but don’t show it to the kids beforehand. Keep it hidden away and surprise them with it when they are showing signs of boredom. In addition to a few toys I also take along surprise snacks and treats which always work like magic.
4. While I wholeheartedly suggest taking a few surprise toys and treats, you can’t go overboard with these as there is only so much you can carry in hand and you don’t want to end up lugging 50 kilos worth of hand luggage around with you with two tired and whiny children in tow! The next best thing is an ipad or similar which is fully charged and loaded with games and movies. I know a lot of parents are against screen time but believe me on a long flight it is a godsend! If you have two kids and one device then be very clear in advance of the flight as to who get’s it when or let them both watch a movie together if that’s an option. Besides occupying the kids, ipad’s are lot easier to carry around than toys. This may sound a bit strange but I have a little calculation I use to decide what entertainment comes along and what doesn’t – minutes/hours of entertainment it can provide divided by weight/space it takes. The ipad wins every time!
5. Carry Calpol, iburpfen or similar in your handbag. When Anya was five and we were flying to India, with no warning she developed a burning high temperature mid-flight. She was so hot that there was even talk of an emergency landing. Kids getting sick is bad enough at the best of times but at 30,000 feet above ground, it’s scary! Luckily there was a doctor on board who checked her out and managed to get Calpol off another passenger. The doctor suggested waiting to see if the Calpol helped before doing anything else. Luckily it worked and I learned my lesson. (Even with the no liquid on board rules, you can still take medicines along ).
6. When flying long haul with children, expect the unexpected like delays, lost luggage and extra long queues. While you can’t plan for every eventuality, it helps to consider the things that can go wrong. I tend to keep a spare set of clothes for Anya in her hand luggage which came in very handy when the airline lost our luggage when we landed in Buenos Aires after a 24 hour door to door journey. Also spare underwear is handy as even at 5-6 years of age, accidents can happen especially if there are long queues to use the inflight loos.
7. If you too have a fussy eater like Anya (and even if you don’t) it’s a good idea to get the children well fed before a long haul flight. Meals can be delayed, they may not like the options available, their choice of meal may run out – so many reasons and the last thing you want is bored, tired and hungry kids. We usually head to the airport early and let Anya have a full meal at one of the restaurants there. That way she’s fed as late as possible which in theory should keep her full for several hours and then I give her the surprise snacks and treats on board as she won’t eat the airline meals.
8. Keep the best for last. In my experience, that last hour of a long haul flight is the most painful. The last 60 minutes can feel longer than the entire flight! By that time you’ve probably been traveling for several hours and the kids have just about had enough. You’re probably tired too and I know I start to lose every bit of patience that I had at the start. So I keep one special toy or treat, usually the best one for this last hour. It really helps in taking Anya’s mind of her tiredness and boredom for a little while at least. And every minute of calm at this stage helps.
9. Lastly, don’t forget to relax and enjoy the journey which is the first part of your holiday. Once we step inside an airport we are in holiday mode and all normal at home rules are broken from the word go. It really helps if you focus on the fun side of things and keep your sense of humour because after all if you’re relaxed, your kids will be too.
*I’ve linked up to Honest Mum’s brilliant blog posts and Mums Days the list.
We love to travel in this house. If we ever win the lottery, I know we would spend the rest of our days exploring the world. Since having Anya, we haven’t given up on travel and neither have we let distance bother us. We’ve taken her to far flung places like Uruguay, Argentina and San Francisco, all 12 hour flights or longer. The one thing we have changed is where we stay. Before it was always about finding a cool boutique hotel but now it’s always apartments.
With a child, I’ve discovered that the convenience of a holiday apartment is unbeatable. It means plenty of space for everyone, it also means you don’t have to rush out for every meal and often means clothes washing is possible – so handy with a child and you can travel with fewer clothes (in theory at least!). Richard and I turn in to night birds on holiday and often stay up late in to the night chatting while Anya sleeps in the next room without being disturbed. Since I’ve started booking holiday apartments, I’ve never looked back.
A while ago I discovered a beautifully curated holiday home rental site which I have been meaning to share with you ever since. All the homes on this site are real family homes that are rented out while the families are holidaying elsewhere. The added bonus of renting a home where someone lives means that you have all the stuff you could possibly need. There are kids rooms with toys, living rooms full of books and kitchens with all the equipment to cook up anything you want. All the homes are full of charm and character and look so welcoming.
Kid & Coe have so many beautiful homes on offer that include city residences, country cottages as well as beach retreats and mountain chalets. Their list of holiday properties is always growing but even now there is a very good choice. I’m hoping to get away to the Continent this Summer and if I do I would love to stay at one of these holiday homesbecause the idea of staying in a real home really appeals to me. What do you prefer? Holiday apartment or hotel?
I recently met up with a friend who has grown up kids and she was lamenting the fact that this would be her last Summer vacation with all her kids as they’re off to university in Autumn. That got me thinking that I only have (at best) 13 family Summer holidays left with Anya and that just doesn’t sound like a lot. I definitely need to make each one count! With the first of my 13 Summer holidays coming up very soon, I started thinking about all the wonderful places I want to return to as well as new places I want to see. Both Richard and I dream of exploring every corner of the world one day. We did a lot of traveling before Anya came along but now since Anya is only 5, the same holidays have a different focus as they need to cater to her entertainment as well as ours so I started thinking about my top 3 choices for now:
1. Beautiful Tuscany I visited Tuscany for the first time about 3 years ago and it was love. We hired a villa and went on a big family vacation so there was loads of fun and company for everybody. Tuscany truly is a beautiful and very relaxing place and I can’t wait to go back there. In case we can’t manage a full on extended family holiday with our own villa (which can be a nightmare to co-ordinate) I’d love to stay somewhere like Villa Pia. With 17 bedrooms, there are lots of families staying in the villa at the same time so Anya will always have ready made company which matters as she is an only child. There are also loads of kiddy activities from the more usual swimming and playgrounds to the more unusual like cooking and art classes for kids. And for the adults too there’s plenty of lounging, socialising and eating on offer as well as fun activity day trips for all the family. It’s rare to find a place that genuinely caters to both adults and kids equally so it’s definitely top of my list.
2. Gorgeous Goa
Nothing beats a beach Summer holiday. Which kid doesn’t like to spend time splashing by the sea side and building sandcastles galore? There are lots of places to choose from across the world but our last beach vacation was a glorious week in Goa a couple of years ago where we couldn’t get enough of all the sun, sand and seafood. We chose a family friendly resort so there were plenty of other families and kids around. Anya was never short of company and made friends wherever we went. Much like the Italians, Indians tend to be very relaxed about kids running around and enjoying themselves around the adults even at restaurants. Most of the restaurants are open air so that helps a lot. I can’t wait to get back to Goa as not only is it one of the most chilled out family friendly places but the food is to die for.
3. Vibrant cities
Even though Anya is only 5, we have taken her on many a city break which works as long as we make sure we have one thing planned for her each day. Sometimes a full on 2 week holiday isn’t possible due to budgets or work pressures so I find even getting away for 5 or 6 days feels like a break. My one top tip for a city break with kids is to stay in an apartment over a hotel. This holiday isn’t as social as the others but during our last city break to San Francisco, we found lots to do for both Anya and us. We took her to many playgrounds, fed her ice-cream and pizza and visited museums that would appeal to her. Every city has something to offer kids so I think it’s a shame to miss out on the culture and vibrancy that this kind of a holiday offers just because you have kids. We can’t get away for long this Summer so we’re thinking of a city break to Berlin. Do you have any tips for child-freindly places in Berlin?
Where do you Summer holiday? I’m always looking for new ideas especially recommendations so I’d love to hear where you holiday in the Summer.
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Even though I had lived in India for many years, I never made the trip to neighbouring Nepal. Over the Easter break we made the trip because we had a close family wedding to attend and I’m so glad we did. We didn’t have long there but still managed to pack in a huge amount. The capital city Kathmandu didn’t wow me although it does have some beautiful world heritage sites. But we made an overnight trip to Pokhara (22 minute flight from Kathmandu), a town that sits in the valley of the Himalayas. The views of the Himalayas from Pokhara were breathtaking and I highly recommend a visit if you’re ever in Nepal. I thought it would be fun to share a few photos of our trip and highlight a few unmissable places in Nepal.
In Pokhara we were invited to stay at The Fulbari Resort which has the most incredible setting. If mountains are your thing then this is the place to stay as you wake up with views like these photos each morning. Trekking isn’t my thing but we took some mountain drives and visited the beautiful Phewa lake where we took a boat ride. Everywhere we went in Nepal we were presented with a traditional ceremonial scarf called a Khata which is what Anya is wearing in the photo above.
It was an Indo-Nepalese wedding so being the Indian side, we did the traditional Indian baraat where all the guests from the grooms side dance alongside him as they escort him in to the ceremony. There was a loud band playing the best of Bollywood to add to the already amazing atmosphere. The ceremony was held at the Hyatt Kathmandu which is a lovely hotel and a comfortable haven away from the hustle and bustle of the city. Another Kathmandu hotel that we spent time at was Dwarika’s Hotel– a beautiful boutique property which is worth having a meal at or staying at if you want to splurge!
We visited the beautiful Patan Durbar Square and many of the temples in Kathmandu. Anya’s favourite temple was Swayambhu, a Buddhist temple perched on top of a hill that had the most amazing views of Kathmandu. But it wasn’t the views that enchanted Anya, it was the monkeys. The temple was full of monkeys – old and young, big and small – all roaming around freely. One of them almost jumped on her which was a bit scary but then it thankfully moved on elsewhere!
Nepal is a beautiful country and the people are so warm and welcoming. I’m so glad we had the opportunity to visit and I can’t wait till we go back and spend a bit more time there.
Have you been to Nepal? I’d love to hear what you thought and where you went…
Have a wonderful bank holiday weekend full of new adventures x
We are away on holiday in India and we have mostly been eating, spending lots of time together with my family, soaking up the hot, hot, hot sunshine and eating some more.
Because we are all so spread out – my mum in India, my brother and sister-in-law in the States and us in London – we don’t manage to get together as often as we would like. But because of this, our meetings feel even more special when they happen. And with Anya being the only child around, she gets so spoiled – today she indulged in two desserts after lunch thanks to my brother! I’ve been sharing a few of our photos over on instagram and so thought I would share a few here too.
Wishing you a wonderful weekend full of lots of family time.
Traveling and exploring the world has always been a big priority for my husband and me. Once Anya came along, we probably slowed down our travels a bit but didn’t let having a baby stop us from exploring with her. Up till now she was a bit young to appreciate and get involved in the different countries she’s been to but now that she’s 5, it’s the perfect age to encourage her to decide on some things she would like to see and do whenever we go somewhere.
I’m not the best at finding kids activities in new places so when I came across these ZigZag city guides for kids, I thought they would be perfect to help us make our holidays a bit more kid-friendly and to help Anya get more interested. The guides come as a set of cards with a map and some postcards, all with the cutest illustrations. They feature Zig and Zag, two sweet characters who guide you through the city. At the moment, there are only 4 cities on offer but they are adding more to their collection including a London guide which is due out in April this year. We’re hoping to go to New York later this year so if we do, I plan to start with that guide and will of course let you know how we get on.
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